Love Spells

Spells work with the Universal Laws of energy to manifest an outcome of personal will. This outcome may or may not be what is best for the spiritual karmic path that you are on. The Universe sometimes keeps balance on its own to keep us in spiritual harmony that is best for us.

Casting a spell or performing candle magick is a skill like any other. Sometimes it is as simple as practice makes perfect. The spell may work the first time or it may not. Spells can be tricky and sometimes take time before the outcome is achieved or even noticed. Spells can also backfire or cause unexpected events to occur. It is very important to be as focused and precise in what it is you desire.

Casting a love spell to get a specific person to fall in love with you is inadvisable for the simple fact that free will is involved and that opens up the door to karmic chaos! Now, that is not to say you couldn’t do a love healing spell that focuses on healing the emotional rifts or arguments between you and another loved one which could help to save a relationship. There is some gray area there and as long as free will is respected go for it. Just remember the main tenet of Wicca is the “Wiccan Rede” which states “And it harm none, do as ye will”.

The best love spell to bring someone to you is one that asks for the person that is right for you and that is seeking you as well.  Keep in mind that you may or may not have any idea who this person is, but the spiritual universe does! You might want to do some meditation or divination on what you truly need in a partner or lover. Make every effort to properly cast a love spell. Focus on a feeling of well being and the warmth that comes from having a special bond with another. Your goal and intent is to attract the right type of person to yourself, not to capture or snare a particular individual. Some will say to be precise on the qualities and characteristics that you are looking for or desire in a mate. In my opinion, it may be best to ask the universe to bring the lover or mate to you that is right for you at this time. We all have karmic lessons to learn in this life and the universe knows best which people will help us on that journey! Just an opinion of mine and the choice is entirely yours!

Blessed Be

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Candle Magic


Candle magic is one of the simplest forms of spell casting used in Wicca and witchcraft .It’s a method which doesn’t require a lot of fancy ritual or expensive ceremonial artifacts, but there are some simple things to know and understand before doing candle spells.

Types of candles:
Any type of candle can be used for candle magic as long as it has been cleansed and consecrated prior to use. Beeswax candles are higher in price than store bought candles, but they are more powerful because they are produced from nature.  Many experienced Witches will use only candles they have crafted themselves because of a belief it strengthens their energy in the working. However, using a store bought candle can be just as effective. Small taper candles work well.

Cleansing & Consecrating:
This is a very important step and needs to be done to cleanse and remove all the negative energies that the candle has picked up along the way. As with all supplies you want your candles to to be as free of psychic debris as possible. Some witches will submerge it in sea salt and ask the God and Goddess to cleanse and consecrate it. Most witches will use an oil to dress a candle and ask the God and Goddess to cleanse and consecrate it.

Dressing Candles:
Dressing the candle with oil is as important as any other step. Use whatever oil you prefer or what a specific spell asks you to use.  To bring something to you, rub oil on the candle in a downward motion from the top to the middle and then from the bottom to the middle.Then say some enchantment over the candle that ask the God and Goddess to cleanse and consecrate it and bless it with your intent or purpose of the candle.
To send something away from you…you rub the oil from the middle of the candle out to the ends. Never make a back and forth motion as this defeats the purpose. Dab the remaining oil from your fingers onto your third eye and on your breast bone. Then say some enchantment over the candle that ask the God and Goddess to cleanse and consecrate it and bless it with your intent or purpose of the candle.
If you inscribe a candle you should use your Athame. The same principle as dressing the candle is used…

To draw something to you, write from the top to the middle, and then from the bottom to the middle.

To repel things, write from the middle to the ends.

Color of Candles and representations:

  • Red: Courage and health, sexual love and lust, passion, fire element
  • Pink: Friendship, sweet love, emotional healing, peace,
  • Orange: Attraction and encouragement, business goals, selling
  • Gold: Financial gain, business endeavors, solar connections, male energy
  • Yellow: Persuasion protection, intelligence, communication,air element
  • Green: Financial gain, abundance, fertility, element of earth
  • Light Blue: Health, patience and understanding , sky symbolism
  • Dark Blue: Depression and vulnerability, water element
  • Purple: Ambition and power, psych-ism, healing, dreams
  • Brown: Earth-related or animal-related workings
  • Black: Negativity and banishment, protection
  • White: Purity and truth, spirit, substitute for any color
  • Silver: Reflection, intuition, lunar connections, telepathy


Some witches like to use matching colored paper or parchment paper to write their specific goal and desire down and will burn it by folding it and holding it into the candles flame and then putting it into a cauldron or fire safe dish. Some even write their intent using a magical alphabet.If you have knowledge of rune stones it is possible to write them on the paper or carve them into the candles to help intensify the magick. The choice is up to you on how creative you want to be.

Time your candle-burning to correspond to the cycles of the moon if your need can wait. With Moon Magick, to bring something into your life, do your rituals when the moon is waxing (or growing). To rid yourself of something, do it when the moon is waning.

Meditate briefly before lighting the candle to help still the mind and bring your desire into focus. When you light the flame, state your intention out loud, in simple, clear terms. Imagine that you already have what it is you want in your life. Continue to chant your desire as the candle burns. It is not necessary to chant the entire time. Watch the flame steadily, but don’t stare intently. Focus on being receptive and open to what it is you want.

When you have completed your ritual, allow the candle to completely burn away. Some will tell you to let the candle burn down all the way. Others will tell you you can snuff it out or pinch it out and you can re-use it. I believe the choice is yours and it depends on your working. I prefer to use one candle and let it burn out completely. If I am trying to banish or rid myself of something, I will bury the candle away from my property. I will bury it on my property or keep the wax drippings in a special place if I am wanting to draw something to me. Again the choice is yours!

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